‘What is in the heart reflects in your face’, is long gone.
Now people are so well-versed in hiding what they really are that even those few close ones are unable to see behind the projected surface.
We see only what some wants us to see.
‘Appearances can be deceptive’ – deceptive being the operative word. Believing someone and baring the heart needs to be so cautious that, in the end, we don’t end up hurting ourselves.
I don’t mean that we must not believe anyone. Now that the people are becoming more and more self centred, it is time that we step up the game too and not fall into some trap and scar us for life.
It is our effort, no matter what the result of it is. Others’ opinions doesn’t matter.
If you are true to yourself and feel complete satisfaction without an iota of regret, then that is what you need to keep on moving.
What people think of your efforts is none of your business, even if people judge you when it is none of their business.
You do not need others to validate your efforts.
Tap on your own shoulder and move on with your head held high.
There is no rule in life that it has to be lived perfectly. It is not a crime to make mistakes. What is wrong is to make the same mistake twice.
Mistakes are what are required to grow a level up in life; to not linger in stagnancy. Mistakes are opportunities that we stumble upon to acquire knowledge. So be happy when you make more mistakes because it provides you with a chance to gain some lessons from it.
The highest level of maturity is when you realize that it is more important to make yourself feel satisfied, make yourself feel happy instead of pleasing others.
The contentment when you try to do things for your own happiness, instead of considering the judgement of others or waiting for others to do things for your happiness, is when you can feel pure liberation.
It is not fair on the job you do, or for the person you do, if, in the back of your mind, you have ‘Sorry’ as the go-to option.
Even before you start the work, if you have some excuse prepared, then it transcribes into how much you really want that work to workout for you.
If you are doing something nice for someone else and have an apology prepared to fall back on if things didn’t happen as it should, then it signifies your real intention of how much you really wanted to do it for them or how they really matter to you in the first place.
‘Change is the only thing that doesn’t change.’ – This is a familiar sentence that we are used to hearing often.
Sometimes when we are in a good place in life, there is a constant fear in mind that a ‘Change’ might come and disrupt what you’ve got.
How many of us have thought, ‘What if I don’t want to change?’
The truth is, change is going to impose itself on you, whether or not you want it. And the best way to survive in life is to prepare for the change, try to adopt to the changes, or even better make a change by yourself!
Surprise the ‘Change’ in your life by taking the first step towards Change by yourself!
Life will be much more simpler that way!
They don’t simply say that, ‘Behind everysuccessful man, there is a woman.’
But the unwritten meaning behind it can be quite revealing.
A woman can make or break anything. She can mould a beautiful statue from clay or she can shatter a statue to mere dust.
And the way she behaves is a reflection of how a man or a woman behaves with her.
If you embrace the inner beauty of a woman, she can make you do wonders. She can be the pillar that holds a castle up. She can project you to become a great man.
A woman can change your life; but only if she thinks to.