The war between the heart and the brain is incessant. While most of the time heart wants to give us immediate happiness, the brain comes in between and speaks about the logic of doing things for lifelong happiness.
Sometimes in this war, we are the ones who gets caught up and ends up wounded.
Equality between men and women has been a long-term topic which crops up here and there, with some supporting in favor that equality has indeed been achieved, while some points that, modernism in the world does not even begin to cover equality.
While the world is divided on this topic, from my own personal experiences of these 22 years, equality is a term which people have not even begun to comprehend to the full extent. Equality between men and women doesn’t mean are so ‘generous’ as to ‘give’ the women equality as some sort of ‘favor’. Only when it comes naturally to people, just like we brush your teeth daily. It is not something that people has to do consciously, though at the beginning the need to develop the quality must essentially be started like that.
And to the men, who boast that, they treat their women equally, it is not something to feel proud of. Do you feel proud to provide food for your family? Like everything which is of a necessity, it is something that needs to be put in ‘default mode’.
There is no greater male chauvinist than a man who boasts of treating women around him equally.
The war within;
so horrendous that,
it terrifies me
of my future.
The clashes between, the past
trying hard to match,
with the future ‘imaginary castles’
that I am already living in.
I blame the heart, for
it is the culprit that overrode
the brain to make me believe
that unicorns exist.
The blame game starts-
the war waging between
the heart and brain
to decide who is the bane.
All the unhealed wounds or the wounds that have just started healing of one’s heart needs tender care and that’s when it is weak enough to allow for exploitation. And that’s when we inadvertently allow such persons to prey on our wounds and aggravate it into something more.
Don’t ever keep your wounds out in open for sympathy or expect someone to tend to it because, there are more people to hurt it even more than to cure it.
The world sees us and thinks us to be in a certain way. And so are we a mirror image of what the world wants us to be, or, do we believe us to be living our own life but actually are we making us think we are on our own?
We all hear and say ‘sorry’ a lot of times. But do we really mean it each and every time we say it out loud?
If we are really sorry for half the times we told a fake sorry or stopped ourselves from telling a sorry just because that is what people want to hear, many things in life would have been simpler.