TITBIT THOUGHT #24

‘Change is the only thing that doesn’t change.’ – This is a familiar sentence that we are used to hearing often. 

Sometimes when we are in a good place in life, there is a constant fear in mind that a ‘Change’ might come and disrupt what you’ve got. 

How many of us have thought,  ‘What if I don’t want to change?’ 
The truth is, change is going to impose itself on you, whether or not you want it. And the best way to survive in life is to prepare for the change, try to adopt to the changes, or even better make a change by yourself! 
Surprise the ‘Change’ in your life by taking the first step towards Change by yourself! 

Life will be much more simpler that way! 

THE GIRL WITH THE DRAGON TATTOO

This book was long due for many years. I don’t know why I kept putting it off to take this book and read it. But, man, I am glad that I get to read it finally!!

This is one of the greatest books I have read in quite a while. No wonder it has risen to become one of the best-selling books in the world. The first in the Millennium series, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo is about a Swedish journalist, Mikael Blomkvist, who made allegations against a billionaire, but wasn’t able to prove his testimony in the court and thus lost the case. 

When Mikael is glooming on his defeat, he is invited by Henrik Vanger, the head of Vanger Corporation, to help him solve a case by offering lucrative money and most importantly, important proofs against the billionaire against whom he had lost the case. Since his career as a journalist was almost over, he found no reason to not accept the assignment.

The assignment was to find out his grandniece, Harriet, who went missing many years back. Henrik Vanger provides him with all the evidence which he had collected over the years. Lisbeth Salander, who aptly signifies the title, The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, helps him in his case. 

The character Lisbeth Salander was inspired from Steig Larsson‘s real life, when he stood by and watched his acquaintance, Lisbeth, being gang-raped when he was at the age of 15. After that, consumed by guilt, he tried to earn her apology but could not. This character Lisbeth Salander, who is also a rape survivor, is a shadow of the real Lisbeth from his life.

The sad part of the book is that Stieg Larsson died before the book was published. A man who has so brilliantly written such an intricate plot with lots of characters, keeping the clarity intact is to be accoladed. 

A brilliantly crafted book worth spending some worthwhile time. 

I’m waiting eagerly to start on the second book of the Millennium!

Titbit Thought #23

They don’t simply say that, ‘Behind everysuccessful man,  there is a woman.’ 
But the unwritten meaning behind it can be quite revealing.

 A woman can make or break anything. She can mould a beautiful statue from clay or she can shatter a statue to mere dust. 

And the way she behaves is a reflection of how a man or a woman behaves with her. 

If you embrace the inner beauty of a  woman, she can make you do wonders. She can be the pillar that holds a castle up. She can project you to become a great man. 

A woman can change your life; but only if she thinks to. 

Titbit Thought #22

The war between the heart and the brain is incessant. While most of the time heart wants to give us immediate happiness,  the brain comes in between and speaks about the logic of doing things for lifelong happiness.

Sometimes in this war, we are the ones who gets caught up and ends up wounded.  

IS EQUALITY A FAVOR?

Equality between men and women has been a long-term topic which crops up here and there, with some supporting in favor that equality has indeed been achieved, while some points that, modernism in the world does not even begin to cover equality.

While the world is divided on this topic, from my own personal experiences of these 22 years, equality is a term which people have not even begun to comprehend to the full extent. Equality between men and women doesn’t mean are so ‘generous’ as to ‘give’ the women equality as some sort of ‘favor’. Only when it comes naturally to people, just like we brush your teeth daily. It is not something that people has to do consciously, though at the beginning the need to develop the quality must essentially be started like that.

And to the men, who boast that, they treat their women equally, it is not something to feel proud of. Do you feel proud to provide food for your family? Like everything which is of a necessity, it is something that needs to be put in ‘default mode’.

There is no greater male chauvinist than a man who boasts of treating women around him equally.

 

THE BLAME WITHIN

The war within;

so horrendous that,

it terrifies me

of my future.

 

The clashes between, the past

trying hard to match,

with the future ‘imaginary castles’

that I am already living in.

 

I blame the heart, for

it is the culprit that overrode

the brain to make me believe

that unicorns exist.

 

The blame game starts-

the war waging between

the heart and brain

to decide who is the bane.

 

 

Titbit Thought #21

All the unhealed wounds or the wounds that have just started healing of one’s heart needs tender care and that’s when it is weak enough to allow for exploitation. And that’s when we inadvertently allow such persons to prey on our wounds and aggravate it into something more. 

Don’t ever keep your wounds out in open for sympathy or expect someone to tend to it because, there are more people to hurt it even more than to cure it.